If there’s a one bedroom topic that concerns men as much as SIZE, it’s stamina — how long they can last in bed.
Timing can be everything in the bedroom…
And it means a lot to women even if she won’t voice it.
However, if you’re reaching climax sooner than your partner, sex may not be satisfying for HER.
This can be frustrating. And embarrassing. It can even hurt your relationship too.
In my case, I lost my wife’s respect. I felt less of a man, and very much ashamed and bitter whenever it is night.
Why? Because I’d always disgrace myself( I cum so fast).
Before I go further,
Let me introduce myself… (chances are you’re meeting me for the first time)
My name is Chike, and I work in a publishing firm in Gwagwalada.
A few months ago, I used to be like that. I was the typical definition of a 1-minute man. Trust me, I spill even less than 30 seconds most times.
Immediately I thrust in, I cum. Sometimes it’s worse. Few seconds of a french kiss and my pants are all wet. Sad thing.
After I had cum within seconds, we’ll start foreplay. She’ll do everything she could think of, but my jack won’t erect again(until some 2 hours later).
And she’s always pained whenever it happens
But as a sharp guy, I used to tell her it’s work stress (truth is I’m a workaholic). And she believed
But not until long, she got tired and insisted we go hunting for solutions.
We visited a good number of clinics. No result.
I got some local agbo/concoctions. No result.
I’ll try out every thing we could lay our hands on. (Both online and offline)
Amidst this period, there was nothing like happiness in my marriage. We were much of a happy couple during the day, and once it’s dark, a bitter couple. It was that depressing.
Now Here’s Something You Should Know About SEX…
There is no set time when a man should spill out his cum during sex.
But it’s probably too soon if you have an orgasm before intercourse or less than a minute after you start.
Why is this a problem?
Because when you cum fast, your jack goes flaccid…and you can’t continue firing.
Your madam will feel there’s not enough time to enjoy it.
And she’ll frown at you for it because at this point she’s seriously craving you.
Mind you…you’ve reached orgasm. She hasn’t.
See…
…Sex is the sweetest thing in any relationship. And women enjoy it the most.
That’s not all.
There’s something magical and mysterious about the female orgasm — They feel a bit like the nice scratchy tickling feeling when someone strokes the inside of your arm, only way more intense
At orgasm, she forgets every shite for a moment and feels good all through the body…for that day
And for that single reason, every lady wants to get to that point
It doesn’t matter if she’s a prayer warrior or an Alaja…whether she’s a Deeper Life sister or Mummy GO.
But…
Don’t blame yourself yet…It’s very very difficult to bang a lady to reach climax.
And the reason is:
The Average Time a Man Can Wire is 7-10 minutes
But for women, it’s about 30-60 minutes.
You see? The gap is just way too much.
For this reason, to make her cum…is always not easy
It even gets worse if you can’t last up to 5 minutes. Your matter will be on the lips of all their female friends (Dem go spread your matter like bedsheet)
Now, this is caused by Premature Ejaculation or Erectile dysfunction(Weak erection)
However, if you’re always cuming fast you’ll lose some of the closeness shared with your madam.
You’ll be angry (especially at night). Ashamed. Upset. And be turned away from your beautiful damsel.
The SAD thing about Premature ejaculation and Erectile Dysfunction is that